Thought of penning down a blog post since it’s been a while since the last post!.. I just started to feel a sense of Anti incumbency due to the big gap!.. So thought of coming back with a bang post that could stir many emotions rather than something customary for me!
I badly want this Blog post to fall in line for many if not for all and there are few aspects of Life that fits to the Demand!..So after a brief Elucidation, I just made up my mind to share with my beloved readers about my fascination towards Love and its Romantic Drama aftermath! 😉.
Biologically it’s as simple to define Love as an arousal of a series of emotions due to the hyper-secretion of certain hormones combined with Amygdala stimulation from Brain!!..
But it doesn’t get that simple when it comes down to the Psychological faucet!.. So does it get creepy from here?!..
If someone were to ask me when my 1st love was a few years back… I would have said it was during my 8th grade!!.. Someone asks me the same question now.. Probably the answer would be different.. That’s just an Indication of the clarity you have achieved in the due course in trying to distinguish between a more complex and Compelling Adolescense and something that’s Stage 1 to it!😂….
A lot of people tend to change stands in a Relationship💏…which comes with their personal fluctuations due to reasons that may be either accounted or unaccounted for!..and once the equilibrium is affected the entire reaction comes to collapse.. but that’s not how Humans are supposed to react..I believe we are provided with all the strength to accept, Respect and Move On!..
Its just ubiquitous that once broken up.. each of them turn their backs like strangers all together!…If this is what was meant to happen then I am seriously afraid that we have failed to sail through the Tide and Brace the Impact.. and when you don’t
do that Love turns into a demon of Self destruction.. A lot of people draw distinction between Love and Friendship but I feel that its Friendship that sows the seeds 🌰 for Love to blossom… You can cut the tree but the roots will always stay strong, Rooted deep!… When you try to burn the entire tree you eventually end up causing harm to yourself because you have took pain in bringing it up all these years.. So rather than trying to Axe your tree down.. Water the roots rather than the Branches!.. It’s as simple as that!
Brace up!.. Respect and accept decisions.. That’s a Life Skill that will eventually make you stronger and mentally prepared!
After a break up 💔.. You usually attain a low and might require some time to regain normalcy as Negative feedback mechanisms usually takes its own time to revert to its optimum levels!
You are more prone to fall in Love again during this Phase as you are still emotionally yearning back for it.. This might seem Paradoxical but certain things are understood only by time and age!
You are cautioned to be extremely cautious this time around because you are trying to swim against the tides of Negativity and reach a point of harmony and understanding with your new partner.. Any negative change in stand that occurs now will be difficult to Swallow and might rip you apart.. The scars will stay dark and tough!
But still you cannot get struck in between and waste your tears.. There’s so little time in Life and you are meant to make the most of it.. So again Brace Up, Respect, Accept and Move On!!
There will be times when you will lose your Self Respect, Dignity and much more valued Processions during the process which is not justice to Love Itself..Love is all about being mutual. It isn’t about letting one person beg for and the other being so authoritative… You have to bend down a little so that you value the bonding you have cherished before!
As you grow up you tend to attain a point in Life where you admire Love in everything… You will attain a sense of Peace with yourself after being through soo much of Romantic fluctuations!…
A lot of people might be critical of Love.. Some might be soo Aggressive.. That might be due to their inability to understand or recognize Life!.But Love is something that brings a breeze of calmness within you and there’s no point in denying it.
There’s Love between father and Son,
There’s Love between siblings,
There’s Love between Mom and Dad,
There’s Love between Friends,
There’s Love between a student and pedagogue,
There’s Love between colleagues,
There’s Love between Enemies!,
There’s Love between India and Pakistan 💘,
There’s Love between humans and animals,
There’s Love between plants,
Love is Humanity in its purest form and Love fills the space around you.. So there’s no point in denying a feeling that you are always Attached to!
So if someone now comes and asks me when my 1st Love was… I would probably laugh at them because who could presume something that begins in Womb even before your organs develop and differentiate?! 💕..Thats Love and its Immortal!
Cherish Love;Relish Life😊
“WITHOUT LOVE WE LOSE THE WILL TO LIVE”